Tuesday, July 21, 2009


So, after a somewhat off date Thursday night, "F" has now cancelled our date for tonight. And I won't lie, I had some really cute stuff planned! I don't know what is going on! On Thursday we went to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and then to dinner. While everything was fine, there was something missing. He just wasn't really there. Usually he is so affectionate, which is just one thing I like about him, but there was none of that. I tried to talk to him about it, but he just kind of ignored it.
Now I will admit, I have not been totally forthcoming with my feelings, but I have been more open with "F" than I can remember being in a very long time. However, I also realize that he may be feeling like I am not really making him a serious part of my life. I think the perfect example of this is that in the time we have been dating I have been gone every weekend except for one. I don't think that sends the best message, and I really didn't even realize it until this past weekend in Boston with my accomplice who had to knock some sense into me.
So, what do I do? I want him to know that I like him and want to see what happens (I was planning on saying all of that tonight!), but how do I do that when I can't see him? I did text him back asking him if he wanted to reschedule for this weekend, hopefully making it clear that I am here for him. What else can I do....any ideas?


MCW said...

I think that is all you can really do...has he been asking to see you more? did you mention meeting friends?

Little Match Girl said...

No, thats just it. I called him to plan this date...if anything, he has pulled away. Probably because of my never being around, the timing of our beginning to date could not have been worse! But now that things are slowing down for me and I can make the time and commit, he is pulling away!