So after my date with "E" I clearly had to talk about it with everyone. I was talking to my sister (the one who met her husband online) and she said something that really got me thinking. We were talking about how I just wasn't feeling any type of spark and didn't see this going anywhere. She mentioned that he first time she went out with er husband she thought they would just be friends. Then the phone rang a few days later and it was him and she was really excited to talk to him and see him again!
I thought about it, maybe if/when "E" called I would be excited. Maybe, he was nervous on the date so going out again would give me a better chance to get to know him. I was willing to follow my sister's line of thinking. Then the phone rang...
And nothing, no excitement on my part, in fact I was little bored by our conversation. I didn't let on as much and the conversation ended without him asking me out again. I though that was fine, since I was not really interested anyway. But then he called again a few days later (and again, I thought 'maybe this time I'll be excited'). This time he did ask to get together again, and I am going to go, because I promised I would go out with anyone who asked at least twice. And while my accomplice says I have already made up my mind about him (which is 99.9% true) I am still hoping my sister's advice will ring true and I will look forward to seeing "E" again!
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I agree with your sister! I didn't think the first few times I hung out with J were even dates (surprise - sunflowers!), but look at us now :D Go out! Have fun!
Yay!! Super excited...when are you seeing him again??
yes--give it a chance--there could be something about him that you don't know yet that turns the spark on! It is not how people look, or really how they act, especially at first, it is the kind of person they are that makes the spark--and you don't know what it might be yet. Good Luck and can't wait to hear the next update!!!
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