Friday, June 19, 2009

The Cookie

So, I think its safe to say that "F" and I are embarking on some sort of relationship. I am not seeing anyone else and neither is he. So does that make him my boyfriend? Whoa, didn't see that coming! I am still calling him the guy I am seeing to other people. So who knows?

What I do know is that I am still liking him. He makes me laugh and we have fun together. We went to dinner last night and then he came over to my place for some private time. Which I think is all I'll say about that, I mean my mother reads this! Actually, my mom will probably read this and then call me for details! But I am not sharing, I will say that there was no sex. According to dating boot camp (and Steve Harvey of all people) you should wait ninety days after your first date before you have sex. That way you establish the emotional connection and not just a physical one. What do you all think of that? Steve Harvey calls it "the cookie" which I think is hilarious! Did you all know he wrote a book about dating? I haven't read it, but I have a friend who has and she explained it to me in great detail. Hence knowing about "the cookie." Anyway, I know I am not ready to give "F" my "cookie" yet, ninety days or not.


DYAP said...

I agree about the cookie!! LOVE YOU!! xoxo

Sister of Accomplice said...

God Bless cookies! And I agree--but if you need me to mail you both some real cookies to get you through the 90 days, I can do that! Just name your flavor, Sister! I am so happy about this whole thing! XXOO

Accomplice said...

As I texted you yesterday, I think 90 days is crazy. If some guy tried to get me to wait 3 months, I'd be out of there! Of course, wait until you're ready, no need to be uncomfortable...but 90 days? Forget that! And calling it a cookie? Just makes me think of crumbs in bed. No thanks!