Apparently, I need to hone my math skills. "B" is back. Let's recap shall we?
1. I sent "B" an e-mail on match.com and two days later got a response. When he did not hear back from me immediately, he proceeded to scope me out on facebook and e-mail me there.
2. I responded to his facebook message three days later. I did apologize for time just running away from me with work events and travel foe my sister's bridal shower. I mean a girl has to have her priorities right? And while "Operation 3.0" is super important, my job and my sister are even more important. Sorry "B".
3. I did not hear back from "B" in fact one of my friends said I probably never would. And I won't lie, that was fine with me. Like I said before these games of waiting the same amount of time to write back and all that, I just don't do that.
4. "B" wrote back! FOUR days later, are we sensing a pattern. Wait one more day than the other person? He too apologized for being busy.
5. I responded right away!! Wishing him a Happy Thanksgiving since he mentioned his oh so busy schedule leading up to the holiday.
So, what do you all think? Will I hear form "B" tomorrow? In five days? Six? Or can we just say good-bye to this game playing guy and move on?
Friday, November 21, 2008
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4 comments:
All things being equal, I believe you'll hear back and hey, who knows, maybe you two will actually manage to hook up. Stranger things have happened. Good that you kept an open mind and did answer him back. Congrats!
If you hear from him, stop screwing around and schedule a date. If that doesn't work, at least you know you tried...if you don't hear back from him, no loss, but if you do, start getting things done! I know we're all busy, but yes, he's taking a REALLY long time to get back to you! But whatever...Operation 3.0 isn't going to happen if we don't take chances...
I agree with my younger yet sometimes wiser sister. Make a date for a glass of wine. If he is a jerk or doesn't show, his loss! Plus, you should show up 1/2 hour early, have a 1/2 glass of wine before he shows up to calm your nerves, look fabulous and it is very likely someone else will hit on you--good for the ego!
I'm with accomplice and sister of! You need to just dive it (and don't use my experience of talking with a guy for 2 months before you actually MEET him...remember how that turned out????)
Make plans, get all pretty (I suggest the leopard print shoes), and go for the dirty martini if nothing else!
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